There lies in man a desire to matter.Someone once said that men want to be needed and women desire to be cherished in all of us theres that craving to be just that special person.
For a long time the quest for the perfect soul-mate has pushed one into multiple relationships and experimentations,but alas no connection was made.Why do people love?how do you know she/he is the one?
Is it in the quality of her/his mind? the sincerity of the spirit?or the beauty of the body.
A good friend once said that human nature is unpredictable,and unstable,what satisfies you today might irritate you tomorrow,so never expect to find all you desires in one person,pursue God,chase God.
but cant the same thing happen to your pursuit of God,the initial love affair with the master can be characterised with heartfelt and joyful worship,moments of ecsatsy in Prayer,a superlative time in his word,great strides in evangelism,but slowly and most times subtly you begin to loss the glow and fervour...what happened?
did you get to familiar with HIM,or did you become too intimate that your intercourse became more like routine?
OR did SIN gain the ascendeny ?
I believe what settles the issue is the tipping point effect,thats the place where we become comfortable with who we are ,and who we have become,recognising that we are growing and evolving daily,and finding that person that apperciates who we are today,who we where yesterday and has the courage to look forward to who we will become tomorrow,knowing that God never changes we are the ones that change as we move to a place of trusting him to embrace our change.
1 comment:
well said.....
a wise man once said
happiness is within...u need not search for it in another human
moreover no one is without blemish
and we tend to have days when we wholeheartedly worship the creator and days when we expect Him to 'understand' our lack of fervour
why is it harder wit relationships?
cos with family its easier
they love u faults and all
in relationships,we tend to always try to prove 'i love u'
except when u are dealing with a person wit a lot of self esteem who also understands its the little stuff that count
lovely post..always knew u had it in you to be a terrific spinner
MWAH
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